Is that what you carry through your mentoring and coaching?
Younger kids have a different environment than I had. There are so many distractions and a lot of judgement.
But I always say to them that you don't need all the answers. A lot of them have to know at 16: I need to know what I'm doing at uni. I need to do that one job. The reality is, as you get older, you realise that those things aren’t true.
I used to really struggle making decisions because I like information. I'd ask 10 people their opinion and then I'd have all this information and it'd make it worse.
Once I reframed things saying, ‘If it’s wrong, you can make another decision’, it took the pressure off. I was like, ‘Well, I can just go and make decisions every day now’.
So I’d say to young people: you don't need the answers. The worst decisions are the ones I never made. You don’t need to wish you’d done something if you did it, or you did it and it wasn’t great. You can do something else.